After becoming successful with women, you’ll eventually find one that you want to keep. For many guys, that is exactly what they want – they are content to find that one girl that is special to them, rather than feeling the need to continually find new girls to sleep with.
You should know, in as much detail as possible, what you are looking for in “a keeper.” This will be what helps you spot them.
Typically, this doesn’t have anything to do with physical traits. Usually, you’re already interested in her because you’re physically attracted. The “Keeper” qualities are typically personality traits that you find appealing.
Things like – is she funny? Smart? Does she make you feel good? Are the two of you sexually compatible? Do you share the same beliefs and goals?
When you know exactly what you’re looking for in an ideal mate, you’ll be able to spot her when she comes along, so you’re going to want to have some type of list that let’s you know what you’re looking for.
When you find a girl that you especially like, close to your ideal (very rarely, if ever, will you find a girl that meets ALL of your criteria), you should play a slightly different game than when you are when you’re just trying to get a girl into bed.
If you sleep with this girl immediately, she is going to suspect that you are looking more for adventure and excitement than for stability, trust, and a longer relationship.
And for some people, establishing a relationship after a one night-stand can be very hard. Why is this? Because if you slept together the first night you met, even if you do get into some kind of relationship, as soon as she goes out with her friends or you go out with your friends, the issue of trust is going to rear its ugly head.
How can she trust that you are not going to cheat on her? How can you trust her that she won’t cheat on you? So trust is going to be very difficult to establish fully, and trust is a crucial thing in long term relationships!
So I’m going to give you some advice about this problem. When you meet a girl you want to keep, a girl that you want for a relationship, don’t sleep with her that same night. Instead, just … READ MORE ----->