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How to Keep a Girl Once You’re in a Relationship

After becoming successful with women, you’ll eventually find one that you want to keep. For many guys, that is exactly what they want – they are content to find that one girl that is special to them, rather than feeling the need to continually find new girls to sleep with.

You should know, in as much detail as possible, what you are looking for in “a keeper.” This will be what helps you spot them.

Typically, this doesn’t have anything to do with physical traits. Usually, you’re already interested in her because you’re physically attracted. The “Keeper” qualities are typically personality traits that you find appealing.

Things like – is she funny? Smart? Does she make you feel good? Are the two of you sexually compatible? Do you share the same beliefs and goals?

When you know exactly what you’re looking for in an ideal mate, you’ll be able to spot her when she comes along, so you’re going to want to have some type of list that let’s you know what you’re looking for.

When you find a girl that you especially like, close to your ideal (very rarely, if ever, will you find a girl that meets ALL of your criteria), you should play a slightly different game than when you are when you’re just trying to get a girl into bed.

If you sleep with this girl immediately, she is going to suspect that you are looking more for adventure and excitement than for stability, trust, and a longer relationship.

And for some people, establishing a relationship after a one night-stand can be very hard. Why is this? Because if you slept together the first night you met, even if you do get into some kind of relationship, as soon as she goes out with her friends or you go out with your friends, the issue of trust is going to rear its ugly head.

How can she trust that you are not going to cheat on her? How can you trust her that she won’t cheat on you? So trust is going to be very difficult to establish fully, and trust is a crucial thing in long term relationships!

So I’m going to give you some advice about this problem. When you meet a girl you want to keep, a girl that you want for a relationship, don’t sleep with her that same night. Instead, just … READ MORE ----->

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Women in Relationships With Married Men

Infidelity in marriage is so prevalent. It’s almost as if monogamous marriages are a thing of the past. It’s sad because you have to wonder who can you trust. But one thing that really bothers me is women that are fully committed to married men. Am I the only one bothered by this? It’s not even something that is new. This has been going on for ages and I still don’t understand it.

This goes beyond an affair. Usually in an affair both parties know that it will someday come to an end. Either their relationships will be exposed or one or both parties get tired of sneaking around when they want to be together. Some affairs lead to one of the parties involved thinking that the other one will leave his or her spouse in order to pursue a relationship with them. It’s all wrong, but who am I to judge what other people do. I personally don’t feel this is what God intended for us. I believe God intended for us to all have our own spouses without having to share. That’s just my belief, maybe I’m the one that is wrong.

I want to know what makes a woman can get into a full relationship with a man that is married and lives at home with his wife and family and is fine with that? Please help me to understand. What could possibly possess a woman to be comfortable having a committed relationship with a man that makes you second. Do you not feel that you are worth more than that? Is it that difficult to find a man that you have to settle for a man that has a wife at home? When he leaves your house and goes home to his family, do you feel lonely? I really do not get it. I need someone to explain it to me.

There is already a common saying that all men are dogs. Women who allow this not only confirm this behavior, but they seem to admonish it. You are letting men know that there are women out there that will be perfectly fine with being married and having a woman on the side. You are telling a man that you don’t mind being second. You are telling a man he can have his cake and eat it too.  No need for a divorce.  It shouldn’t matter … READ MORE ----->

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Get the Lean Hollywood Look That Appeals to Women

The lean Hollywood look is the build most admired by women today. That’s a good thing for us guys, because it is much easier to workout and not worry about putting on 20 lbs. of muscle. You can definitely become stronger, more muscular, and more defined when you are not trying to add so much size.

Gone are the days of the blocky, bulky look of NFL defensive linemen.

Women today are extremely candid about wanting the men in their life to look strong, lean, and tapered. The popularity of big screen TV’s have given women much more opportunity to critique the builds of Olympic athletes like sprinters, hurdlers, and  well as Hollywood celebrities like Paul Walker, Matthew McConaughey, Brad Pitt, and Channing Tatum.

It may not be reality, but this is the standard we have been given. Now, how do we meet it?

It Takes Time to Create a Body Women Find Desirable

Forget the nonsense on the Internet about looking like a stuntman from the movie 300 with a “secret” 12-week workout. You need to focus on a more protracted goal of 25 – 36 weeks. Commitment to quality nutrition, brief intense strength training workouts in the gym, and interval training are what will get you there. You cannot rush the process.

The Biggest Factor Will Be Your Diet

If you want to look like an athlete, you must start eating like an athlete. Get rid of sugar foods, oily foods, fast foods, and processed foods. Chicks cannot see your muscles if they are covered with a layer of fat. Make slight reductions each week in the calories you consume. Start eating more fresh fruits and more fresh vegetables. Get your protein from solid sources (fish, turkey, chicken breasts) NOT idiotic protein shakes that put on more belly fat.

Train For Strength With Fundamental Exercises

You do not need more that 45-50 minutes in the weight room. Alternate your weeks with heavier weights and lower reps one week, lighter weights and more sets/reps done quickly, but strictly the next. Utilize fundamental, multi-joint lifts like DB Military Presses, Benches, Pull-ups, Dips, Squats, Deadlifts, Cleans, and Rows. Forget about fluff movements like Wrist Curls and Triceps Kickbacks. Always do some ab work and some Cheat Curls.

Integrate Interval Training In Your Cardio

In order to put your metabolism into overdrive, you need to amp up the volume of your cardio. … READ MORE ----->

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Men to the Rescue – How to Save Women From Breast Pain, Cysts, and Cancer

You know how excited men are about women’s breasts. Actually, men are obsessed.

Men to the Rescue - How to Save Women From Breast Pain, Cysts, and Cancer

This, of course, makes women obsessed, too. And it causes them to do very strange things to their breasts.

Women pierce them, stuff them, tattoo, push up, and constrict them, compress them, clamp them with underwires, wrap them, suck them out to make them smaller, toxify them with chemicals leaching out of their bras, routinely X-ray them with mammograms to look for tumors, and sometimes agree to surgically remove them to prevent breast cancer.

Women treat their breasts as fashion accessories. Many women even refuse to use their breasts to nurse their babies since this, they fear, will mar their breasts’ visual appeal.

Of course, from a biological perspective, breasts are for nursing babies. They also play a part in sexuality. However, as with all things, when people get obsessed, they go over the edge and start doing extreme things. The result is often a disease.

Our culture causes disease by teaching us attitudes and behaviors that interfere with the way our bodies are supposed to function. When it comes to breast cancer, it is caused by an attitude that cleavage rules, and behavior of daily bra wearing.

In fact, research has shown that the leading cause of breast cancer is the wearing of tight bras for long periods of time each day. Breast cancer is only a problem in cultures where women wear bras. Bra-free women have about the same incidence of breast cancer as men. On the other hand, women who sleep in their bras, or wear them 24/7, have a 3 in 4 chance of developing this disease.

Bras are constrictive garments designed to alter breast shape, which is accomplished by applying constant pressure to the delicate breast tissue. This constriction can impair the drainage of lymph fluid from the tissue, as the bra squeezes down on easily compressed lymphatic vessels. A healthy, unrestricted lymphatic system is essential for removing fluid and toxins from the breast tissue and is the circulatory pathway of the immune system. Chronic compression and constriction of the breast lymphatic system by bras can result in fluid accumulation (lymphedema), breast pain, cyst formation, fibrocystic breast disease, and may lead to cancer. Signs of constriction are red marks and indentations in the skin left by the bra.

Why do women wear bras? It’s because our culture trains them too. Girls start … READ MORE ----->

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How to Select Colors for Wedding Gowns and Evening Wear

The best way to go around this is to get an expert’s opinion. A dressmaker may be able to help you out, but a good fashion designer might be of better help. Fashion designers have learned not only to draw dresses but also how a body will look on a certain dress style. Body anatomy is important when choosing any kind of dress and your wedding gown will be one of the most memorable dresses you will ever wear. It does not matter if it is your first, second or third wedding dress, the important thing is that you will look good on it. Women wedding gowns can go from a simple wedding dress to a really extravagant wedding gown complete with trains and all the frills. Depending on the type of wedding you will have, you can have many styles to choose from.

How to Select Colors for Wedding Gowns and Evening Wear

The Right Color for your Wedding Gown

Aside from the designs of women wedding gowns, another factor is the color of the gown. Of course, white is not debatable. But it is too common; you can go for beige, sky blue or baby pink. But there are those who have gone beyond the conventional and have worn bright colored wedding gowns such as red, fuchsia pink or even golden yellow. As per new trends of 2011, it’s the time to stay away from white. This year is centered on bold and bright colors. If the wedding is taking place during spring and summer than avoid pastel and consider on bright yellow and peach. These color perfectly works for the wedding at a beach wedding, outdoor weddings. Red wedding gowns are also on high demand. Red gowns with satin sashes and bows or black piping and smocked sleeves give a trendy feminine look.

Basically, wedding dresses are different for different region and traditions. In fact, some regions have their defined wedding colors and it becomes a tradition to wear those colors like in Greece white is the wedding color and in Rome, yellow facing yarn is in tradition. Chinese and Indian follow red color in their wedding outfit means luckiness. Royal families stand for silver color women wedding gowns whereas Asian countries have dark complexion so white and other bright shades make their look darker. Hence, it is not an important factor that which color is popular, rather you should choose the color of your wedding dress … READ MORE ----->