Categories: Women

How to Keep a Girl Once You’re in a Relationship

After becoming successful with women, you’ll eventually find one that you want to keep. For many guys, that is exactly what they want – they are content to find that one girl that is special to them, rather than feeling the need to continually find new girls to sleep with.

You should know, in as much detail as possible, what you are looking for in “a keeper.” This will be what helps you spot them.

Typically, this doesn’t have anything to do with physical traits. Usually, you’re already interested in her because you’re physically attracted. The “Keeper” qualities are typically personality traits that you find appealing.

Things like – is she funny? Smart? Does she make you feel good? Are the two of you sexually compatible? Do you share the same beliefs and goals?

When you know exactly what you’re looking for in an ideal mate, you’ll be able to spot her when she comes along, so you’re going to want to have some type of list that let’s you know what you’re looking for.

When you find a girl that you especially like, close to your ideal (very rarely, if ever, will you find a girl that meets ALL of your criteria), you should play a slightly different game than when you are when you’re just trying to get a girl into bed.

If you sleep with this girl immediately, she is going to suspect that you are looking more for adventure and excitement than for stability, trust, and a longer relationship.

And for some people, establishing a relationship after a one night-stand can be very hard. Why is this? Because if you slept together the first night you met, even if you do get into some kind of relationship, as soon as she goes out with her friends or you go out with your friends, the issue of trust is going to rear its ugly head.

How can she trust that you are not going to cheat on her? How can you trust her that she won’t cheat on you? So trust is going to be very difficult to establish fully, and trust is a crucial thing in long term relationships!

So I’m going to give you some advice about this problem. When you meet a girl you want to keep, a girl that you want for a relationship, don’t sleep with her that same night. Instead, just … READ MORE ----->

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Shy, Single and Dateless? Here’s How to Be More Confident So You Can Attract a Great Guy

If you’re one of the shy women amongst us you may have wondered what you can do to attract a guy because you are not the type to wonder over to him and ask him out – so what can you do?

What you can do is start working on your self confidence

First of all you need to develop some confidence. Even though confidence is connected to what you think about yourself, confidence in dating is more about doing, you actually have to do something to increase your confidence.

So this means that if your outcome is to be able to feel confident with guys you will eventually need to go up, talk to them, and be yourself. All of these are skills you can learn how to do well.

Ways to develop your confidence

To start, start focusing on the areas in your life where you do feel confident and make a goal to extend your comfort zone in this area. For instance, if you have any hobby that involves interacting with others, then irrespective of whether they are male or female start to initiate first, start to take the lead no matter how small first, in fact start to do what you would normally do and do more of that and make it bigger.

Next, when you have extended your comfort zone then use the successes of that to make it your goal to do something small like smile at a guy to get his attention, or if that is daunting, then go for something smaller like just saying hi or nodding your head in acknowledgment as you pass by someone.

Use the fact that you were willing to put yourself out of your comfort zone as proof that you can do it and you can even be successful at it.

An often overlooked part of developing confidence is to think about what you think about

So focus on what you tell yourself make it your mission to like yourself and think a lot of yourself- this is a must because without this you will not feel as comfortable around men and you’ll end up on the sidelines.

What you will then find is that you are feeling more confident in approaching men or just being around them. When you notice this, next practice talking to them as if you are all just friends, this will take … READ MORE ----->